Gershy Gorodetsky Went A Step Further Than I Did

So did Noach Tzvasman.... Did Noach's suicide trigger Gershy to commit suicide himself ? If Noach did'nt jump would Gershy still be here ?
I watch this and cant help but wonder if this triggered him.
part 1 of Noach Tzvasmans last trip on the subway.

part 2...The End.


Have you sat around the Shabbos Table and really looked in to all your kids eyes ? Or better yet the tuesday night dinner table ?

Given them a hug just because ? Opened there bed room door while they were sleeping, just to check on them ? Give them a kiss, whisper I love you in there ear ? Do you ever do some thing nice for them, some thing extra special...just because you love them ? Can your son or daughter come to you and talk.....about anything ? Have they ?

Do you take the time to know your childs friends ? If one of them seemd "troubled" would you welcome them in your house ? invite them for dinner ? make them feel noticed, cared about, "normal" ? Has your son or daughter ever written a suicide letter ? maybe more than once ? and "chickened out" Has your child ever washed a handfull of pills down with vodka only to wake up hungover ?

Has your son or daughter ever watched a razor blade dance across there wrists ? Has one of your children ever got so whacked out on drugs in your house while you were sleeping ? Does one of your children have a drug problem that is spiraling out of controll ?

Has your child ever fell asleep on a soaking wet pillow ?Or burried there face so deep in the pillow and turned on the air conditioner and stereo to hide there sobs? Have you ever written your Child a letter......out of the blue ? Just to let them know they are wonderfull and special ?

Have you went through your childs room while they were not home...every drawr, under the mattress, in between the T shirts in the drawrs and opened every CD case......just to make sure ? Have you listened in on some of there phone calls.....because you care ?

Do you check there cell phone bill ? Monitor there internet use ?
When they say they are going out , do you know where they are going ?Do you call them while they are there just to say I love you ?

If your child "screwed up big time" did something they were raised not to do....could they confide in you and cry on your shoulder when they hated them self for it ?

Do you know your children ?

Even if they grew up and moved away....do you still care ?

If your child took there own life....would you die inside ? or would it kill your yichus ?

If your child was dead inside .....would you even know ? ????????